by Adam Cook (www.addicationhub.org)
Rebuilding a life after addiction isn’t easy. Addressing the physical and psychological issues that caused your substance abuse in the first place is an around-the-clock battle in many cases. Combined with the pressure of providing for your needs and those of your family, it can feel like too much to bear. To minimize stress and frustration that could threaten your sobriety, you must be patient, both with the process and with yourself.
One day at a time
Whether you are in a 12-step program or another type of recovery process, the “one day at a time” adage is true for everyone. Getting your life back on track takes time. Focus only on handling the matters of the day to avoid overwhelming yourself. Some days it will be all you can do to stay sober, but doing so will give you a win even if you do nothing else. Other days you may have the constitution to tackle additional matters or self or everyday life. Either way, all consideration of the future should be in relation to what you can do here and now to make it positive.
Finding employment helps those in recovery maintain a purpose for continuing that journey and builds a positive routine. It’s important to be patient, network continuously and utilize all resources that are available to you. Leverage people within your recovery network to help you find your next opportunity. Be sure to express your gratitude to those who offer assistance, even if the opportunity doesn’t work out.
Changes with dual purpose
Part of the recovery process includes making changes to yourself and your routine to help avoid relapse. While it is incredibly important, those changes don’t have to be simply for the sake of changing. Instead, focus the changes on other goals to help you get double the benefits. If you’d like to gain weight or slim down while toning up, focus your fitness routine on weightlifting. If you are environmentally minded, your healthy and nutritious diet might mean avoiding GMO products. Whatever your passions or personal beliefs, actively incorporate those into your decisions.
If you are changing your appearance by getting a new haircut or clothing, opt for a style that will help you look the part as you search for your next job opportunity. If you plan to move so you can avoid relapse, consider a supportive area that puts you closer to family, work, a gym or even somewhere you find relaxing.
Recovery is a marathon, not a sprint. Taking each day one at a time means tackling each challenge. Focus on finding employment and making changes that matter. With determination, purpose and motivation to change, it won’t be long until the successes out number the setbacks.